accessneedworkseet

Mini Worksheet for ADHD Women

Spot one friction point

Where did I lose time or energy this week?

Name the neutral need

My brain needs…

Make one clear request

Please…

Choose the channel

  • I will say it in person.
  • I will paste it into an email.
  • I will add it to our template.

Practice script to copy

ā€œThank you for looping me in. My brain needs written steps. Please put the ask and deadline at the top so I can follow through.ā€

Backup line for pushback

ā€œI understand it’s important. Email works better than voice notes for me, so I can track and respond.ā€

Tiny practice plan

Situation I will try: ____________________________

Day and time: _________________________________

Add to my personal menu

Two statements I can reuse:

Gentle Close

You don’t have to apologize for your needs. Access-need statements protect capacity, lower stress, and increase follow-through. They aren’t about being difficult. They’re about building a life that fits your brain.