Before You Add Another Self-Care Routine

Use this to: decide whether a new routine will help or add more work.

Try it

  1. Name the proposed routine and its purpose. What need would it meet?
  2. Count its demands. Include preparation, time, decisions, cost, and remembering to do it.
  3. Consider a simpler change. Could you remove, reduce, share, or adjust something that is wearing you out?
  4. Choose what fits. Keep the routine, make it smaller, or choose a different response.

Example

You consider an elaborate Sunday meal-prep routine. It would require shopping, planning, cooking, and cleanup when you already need rest. Repeating two simple meals and sharing the shopping may fit better.

Your next step: Decide: “I will try … because it meets … without requiring more than I can manage.”

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