Parenting Training Tailored for Parents with ADHD: A Randomized Trail

Parenting with ADHD: A Constant Juggle

Parenting is demanding, and for adults with ADHD, it can feel like a constant juggling act—managing attention, memory, and emotions all at once. Many parents describe feeling like they’re always behind, trying to keep up with ever-changing expectations. Research shows this can lead to low confidence in parenting and high stress. In the scramble to stay afloat, it’s easy to slip into reactive, inconsistent patterns—more crisis control than steady guidance.

Double the Demand: When ADHD Runs in the Family

ADHD often runs in families, which means a parent’s child may share similar challenges. That creates two nervous systems in one household needing extra support. Add in factors like mental health struggles or financial stress, and it’s no surprise many ADHD parents feel overwhelmed. This is why support must meet families where they are—not just in crisis, but early and often.

Why Confidence Matters in Parenting

Parental self-efficacy—the belief that you can parent effectively—is a major factor in family well-being. When parents feel confident, interactions improve, stress decreases, and home life stabilizes. For adults with ADHD, who often doubt themselves, this belief is crucial. It’s not just about effort—it’s about knowing change is possible, even in chaos. Building confidence should be a core focus of any intervention.

The Problem with Traditional Parenting Programs

Parent training programs, such as Behavioral Parent Training (BPT), help many families enhance their parenting skills and reduce conflict. But these programs often fall short for ADHD parents. They assume consistent focus, follow-through, and organization—skills that ADHD can make harder. Without adaptations, even evidence-based tools may feel out of reach and fail to produce meaningful change.

Treating ADHD Isn’t Enough

There has been little research on BPT for parents formally diagnosed with ADHD. One trial found that individual parent training improved parenting more consistently than medication, but neither approach alone significantly improved child functioning. This suggests that support must go beyond treating symptoms—it must also be designed to fit the realities of ADHD family life.

Most existing approaches focus on managing the parent’s ADHD, not adapting the parenting program itself. But improving ADHD symptoms doesn’t always translate into better parenting. Even when symptoms improve, traditional programs can still miss the mark. What’s needed is a shift: programs built with ADHD in mind, not ones ADHD parents are expected to mold themselves into.

Introducing IPSA: Built for ADHD Parents

That’s where IPSA comes in. IPSA (Improving Parenting Skills Adult ADHD) is a new program designed specifically for ADHD parents. It uses established BPT strategies but adapts how they’re delivered. The program includes group sessions for shared learning and individual coaching with an occupational therapist to apply the strategies at home. It also provides practical supports, such as reminders, sensory-friendly environments, and flexible materials—removing common barriers that ADHD parents face. Earlier studies showed IPSA was feasible and well-received; this trial tested how effective it actually is.

What the Study Looked At

Because ADHD parents often face greater parenting challenges and benefit less from standard programs, researchers tested whether IPSA could help. They measured changes in parenting confidence (the main outcome), stress, home environment, and child behavior. They also tracked whether parents completed the program and used the skills they learned.

How the Study Was Conducted

This randomized controlled trial assigned 109 parents with ADHD to either IPSA (plus their usual care) or to continue routine services only. Parents all had a confirmed ADHD diagnosis, a child aged 3–11, and no other major conditions that would make participation unsafe.

Of the 55 parents assigned to IPSA, 49 began the program, and 96% of those completed at least nine of the 14 sessions. Surveys were collected before, immediately after, and again 1.5–3 months later. The program was delivered in person or online (during COVID) by experienced therapists, and fidelity checks showed sessions followed the manual closely (94%).

What the IPSA Program Included

The program alternated between group meetings and one-on-one sessions across 14 weeks. Topics included:

  • How ADHD affects parenting and family life
  • Using praise and positive reinforcement
  • Managing emotions and staying calm during conflict
  • Setting rules and limits
  • Building structure and routines

Individual sessions helped parents apply these strategies at home, with support for planning and follow-through. Families continued their usual care during the study, and researchers also monitored parents’ overall mental health to make sure IPSA didn’t cause harm.

What Changed for Parents and Families

Parents in IPSA reported large, clinically meaningful improvements in parental self-efficacy (d = 0.85 at post, d = 0.84 at follow-up). These gains lasted through follow-up and included areas ADHD parents often find hardest—staying calm, setting rules, and introducing new strategies.

Parents also reported that their children’s behavior improved and felt less overwhelming. Stress went down, and home chaos decreased immediately after the program but was no longer significant at follow-up. Parents consistently reported using their new skills, and importantly, the program did not increase general stress, anxiety, or depression.

Why This Matters

This is the first randomized controlled trial of a parent training program designed specifically for adults with ADHD. IPSA worked because it adapted to parents rather than expecting parents to adapt to rigid methods. Many participants began with low confidence and left feeling more capable and supported.

Even in families where both parent and child had ADHD—a group often struggling the most—IPSA showed benefits. Supporting the full system, not just the child, makes a meaningful difference.

Limitations and the Path Forward

The study had limits:

  • Most participants were women, well-educated, and self-referred, which narrows generalizability.
  • Only about 25% of parents had a child with ADHD, though IPSA still worked well in this subgroup.
  • Outcomes were based entirely on parent self-reports, with no outside observers.
  • The trial was retrospectively registered, though before analyses were conducted.
  • Follow-up only lasted up to three months, so long-term stability is unknown.

The Bottom Line

When parenting programs are designed for how ADHD minds actually work, they can lead to meaningful change—in confidence, parenting skills, and family life. IPSA shows these gains can hold at least a few months, but more research is needed to understand how lasting and scalable they are.

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